Mark My Words
Every choice you’ve made in your life…it hasn’t really been a choice at all, has it? It’s in your nature. It’s what you are.
Ben on Lost
I see beauty in the outcome and sadness in the death, but they know beauty in the process.
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the dog days are over

I’m back! It has been a truly amazing summer, but after working at camp for 3 months, it’s time to come back to the real world.

It has been a blessing to be able to work with the people I did this summer. Every single one of them touched my life in way that has changed something about myself; all for the better.

The summer has been crazy busy filled with work, fun, and a vacation to Colorado (which you will see plenty pictures of).

God has blessed me with so many great opportunities and people in my life. If there’s one thing that I learned this summer it’s that you can’t plan anything. Because if you plan it, it for sure isn’t going to happen the way you expect it to. You just have to have faith in God in that he knows what he’s doing, because he does. And what he has planned for you is greater than anything else you could have ever imagined.

Oprah’s Final Show

Here’s some of my favorite moments from Oprah’s last show. What she says about God is absolutley amazing.

“That is what a calling is. It lights you up and it lets you know that you are exactly where you’re supposed to be, doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing. And that is what I want for all of you and hope that you will take from this show. To live from the heart of yourself. You have to make a living; I understand that. But you also have to know what sparks the light in you so that you, in your own way, can illuminate the world.

But what I want you to know as this show ends: Each one of you has your own platform. Do not let the trappings here fool you. Mine is a stage in a studio, yours is wherever you are with your own reach, however small or however large that reach is. Maybe it’s 20 people, maybe it’s 30 people, 40 people, your family, your friends, your neighbors, your classmates, your classroom, your co-workers. Wherever you are, that is your platform, your stage, your circle of influence. That is your talk show, and that is where your power lies. In every way, in every day, you are showing people exactly who you are. You’re letting your life speak for you. And when you do that, you will receive in direct proportion to how you give in whatever platform you have.

Nobody but you is responsible for your life. It doesn’t matter what your mama did; it doesn’t matter what your daddy didn’t do. You are responsible for your life. … You are responsible for the energy that you create for yourself, and you’re responsible for the energy that you bring to others.


“Remember physics class? Did you pay attention to Newton’s third law of motion? Let me tell you, that thing is real. It says for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. That is the abiding law that I live by, articulated to perfection by Miss Celie in The Color Purple when she finally gets the courage to leave her abusive husband, Mister. … ‘Everything you done to me already done to you.’ It is the Golden Rule to the 10th power.”

The show has taught me there is a common thread that runs through all of our pain and all of our suffering, and that is unworthiness. Not feeling worthy enough to own the life you were created for. Even people who believe they deserve to be happy and have nice things often don’t feel worthy once they have them.

There is a difference, you know, between thinking you deserve to be happy and knowing you are worthy of happiness.

The show has taught me you’re worthy because you are born and because you are here. Your being here, your being alive makes worthiness your birthright. You alone are enough.

People often ask me, What is the secret of success of the show? How have we lasted 25 years? I nonjokingly say, ‘My team and Jesus.’ Because nothing but the hand of God has made this possible for me. … I know I’ve never been alone, and you haven’t either. And I know that that presence, that flow—some people call it grace—is working in my life at every single turn. And yours too, if you let it in. It’s closer than your breath, and it is yours for the asking.



“I have felt the presence of God my whole life. Even when I didn’t have a name for it, I could feel the voice bigger than myself speaking to me, and all of us have that same voice. Be still and know it. You can acknowledge it or not. You can worship it or not. You can praise it, you can ignore it or you can know it. Know it. It’s always there speaking to you and waiting for you to hear it in every move, in every decision. I wait and I listen. I’m still—I wait and listen for the guidance that’s greater than my meager mind.



“The only time I’ve ever made mistakes is when I didn’t listen. So what I know is, God is love and God is life, and your life is always speaking to you. First in whispers. … It’s subtle, those whispers. And if you don’t pay attention to the whispers, it gets louder and louder. It’s like getting thumped upside the head, like my grandmother used to do. … You don’t pay attention to that, it’s like getting a brick upside your head. You don’t pay attention to that, the whole brick wall falls down. That’s the pattern I’ve seen in my life, and it’s played out over and over again on this show.


A couple weeks ago, we brought back Carolyn Thomas whose face was literally shot off by her boyfriend. You ask Carolyn now: ‘Were there whispers? Were there bricks before the disastrous bullet?’ What Carolyn would say to you? ‘Don’t wait for your face to get shot off before you hear your own life speaking to you.’

What I’ve gleaned from this show: Whispers are always messages, and if you don’t hear the message, the message turns into a problem. And if you don’t handle the problem, the problem turns into a crisis. And if you don’t handle the crisis, disaster. Your life is speaking to you. What is it saying?




my friend just put this as her facebook status and I loved it, so I thought that I would share:

Life is too short, joy is too precious, God is too good, our soul is too valuable, we matter too much to throw away a single moment of our life on anxious striving. For the spirit God gave us does not make us timid. We can go through life worried or we can go through it in peace.

Dear God,

You are seriously awesome.

Love,

Me

‎”Faith is to believe what you do not yet see, the reward for this faith is to see what you believe.
St. Augustine